"Always listen to experts. They'll tell you what can't be done and why. Then do it." Robert A. Heinlein 1907-1988, Sci-Fi Author. Personally I agree:
I believe that when you step up to the challenge that YOU CAN BE - Do and Have more - then you've embarked on a wonderful journey to enrich your life. I mean It's a special feeling and a great place to be.
Moving forward on a consistent basis in order to achieve the results that bring you true joy and happiness is something I have researched and work on throughout my career. Today I have found that so called 'Secret' that brings results.
Failure is only an outcome that makes up the success result that is available to anyone who goes after it. Failure can be overcome and replaced with success. You see success is different for everyone. It's measured on a separate scale and cannot be, and is not the same for everyone. Success strategies and the results do not work like that.
Over the years I've seen thousands of people lose sight of their goals by allowing other people's ideas, rules, opinions and circumstances to trap them into becoming stuck in their lives and unable to move forward. It's similar to 'writers block' when a writer feels s/he cannot pull out the words from their head and get them onto paper in a coherent way because they believe 'life' gets in the way! As a consequence of being in a feeling of stuck self doubt creeps in, mounting feelings of failure and low self esteem drop in to visit causing a trail of perceived failure. But, do you realise that this only happens because awareness of how to create success is not showing up, but I know that with the correct approach and using powerful practical tools for growth its possible to reverse those negative feelings and replace them with forward moving results so you can release your best potential and experience amazing results. The answer stems from best practice of PMA, positive mental attitude with coaching kinetics, it's a system I developed 'The Six Step Success Model'. The benefits of using the system are enormous and will change your life.